A First-Person Account of Bait-and-Switch, Ghosting, Narrow Windows, and What It Feels Like to Be Forgotten
I am a Black woman. I have been in the workforce for decades. I have an MBA, a teaching license, and years of experience in customer service and education. I am not desperate. I am not entry-level. I am someone who knows her worth.
But I am also someone who knows that the job market is not always fair.
Recently, I applied for a Senior Customer Service Representative position at Genworth Financial. The job posting looked promising. It offered remote work, a salary range of $43,200 to $66,400 per year, and the opportunity to use my skills . I thought, “This could be a good fit.”
What followed was a series of events that left me questioning whether my race played a role in how I was treated.
The Application and the HireVue Interview
I submitted my application. The next day, I received an invitation to complete a HireVue interview. I was impressed by the quick response.
HireVue is a digital interviewing platform that allows employers to screen candidates through pre-recorded video interviews . Candidates answer questions on camera, and the system records their responses for recruiters to review later . Many large companies use it to streamline hiring .
I prepared carefully. I practiced answering questions. I made sure my lighting was good, my background was clean, and my technology worked . I recorded my responses. I felt good about my performance.
I was proud of myself for completing the interview and moving forward in the process.
The Bait-and-Switch
After I completed the HireVue interview, I received an email from the recruiter. She was a white woman. I knew this because the HireVue platform had recorded her introductory video.
The email contained information about the pay range for my geographic location. It said:
“The base pay range, based on your geographic location, for this position is $20.77 to $22.84. The final determination will be based on multiple factors including but not limited to experience, and qualifications to ensure pay equity within the organization.”
I was stunned.
The job posting I had applied to clearly stated: “The base salary pay range for this role starts at a minimum rate of $43,200 up to the maximum of $66,400” . That range translates to roughly $20.77 to $31.92 per hour.
The recruiter was now telling me that the realistic maximum based on my location was $22.84 per hour—the very bottom of the posted range. The difference was nearly $19,000 annually.
| Element | Posted Range | Email Range |
|---|---|---|
| Hourly | $20.77–$31.92 | $20.77–$22.84 |
| Annual (low end) | $43,200 | $43,200 |
| Annual (high end) | $66,400 | $47,500 |
The posting suggested I could earn up to $66,400. The recruiter revealed that, for me, the maximum was actually $47,500.
Then came the requirement: I had to confirm that this lower range met my expectations before she would schedule a live interview.
I was being asked to accept less—before I even had a chance to speak with a hiring manager.
The Narrow Window
After I confirmed that the lower pay range met my expectations, the recruiter offered me two possible dates for the live Microsoft Teams interview: Friday of the same week or the following Monday.
That was it. Two options. No flexibility. No “what works for your schedule?”
Other companies have provided more opportunities to interview. Genworth gave me two stark choices.
I was fortunate. I was already off on Friday. I did not have to take time off work. I chose Friday.
But I could not help wondering: what if I had not been off? What if I had been forced to take unpaid time or use PTO—only to sit at my computer waiting for a link that never came?
The narrow window itself was a red flag. It suggested a lack of flexibility, a rigid process, and a “take it or leave it” mentality. It was my first glimpse into how this company might treat its employees.
I Agreed Anyway
Here is the truth: I never intended to take this job. The pay was too low. I was not leaving my current employer for $20 an hour.
But I saw the live interview as a chance to practice. A low-stakes opportunity to sharpen my interviewing skills. I had already completed the HireVue interview. I wanted to see how I would perform in a real conversation.
So I confirmed my availability. The recruiter scheduled the interview for 9:30 AM on Friday. I was ready. I had set aside the time. I was going to get valuable practice.
The Link Never Arrived
Friday morning came. I checked my email for the Microsoft Teams link.
Nothing.
I checked again. Nothing.
I waited. 9:30 AM passed. No link. No call. No message.
The interview never happened.
The Silence
I assumed the recruiter would follow up. Maybe there was a technical glitch. Maybe the link was delayed. Maybe she would apologize and reschedule.
I waited.
No email. No call. No explanation.
She never asked why I did not attend. She never checked if the link worked. She never acknowledged that she had scheduled an interview and then failed to send the link.
The silence was complete.
What I Believe
I cannot prove that the recruiter intentionally failed to send the interview link. I was not in her head. But I know what I experienced.
She offered me two narrow windows. She required me to confirm I would accept lower pay. She scheduled the interview. Then the link never arrived. Then she never followed up.
I cannot help but wonder: what if I had not been off on Friday? What if I had taken time off work—lost wages, used PTO, rearranged my schedule—only to sit at my computer waiting for a link that never came?
Would she have ever apologized? Would she have ever explained?
I do not know. But I know that the silence felt intentional. It felt like she hoped I would miss work. It felt like she was testing my desperation. And when I did not have to sacrifice anything, she simply moved on.
I believe there was bias on the recruiter’s part. I cannot prove it. But the patterns align.
What the Research Says About Race and Hiring
I cannot prove that race played a role in what happened to me. But I know the research. And the research is clear.
Bias in Salary Negotiations
A study published in the Journal of Applied Psychology found that racially biased evaluators expect Black job seekers to negotiate less than white candidates—and penalize them when they do negotiate. The researchers found that each time a Black job applicant was perceived to have made another offer or counteroffer, they received, on average, $300 less in starting salary.
The study concluded that “racially biased perceptual distortions can be used to justify the provision of smaller monetary awards for Black job seekers in negotiations.”
I was asked to confirm my acceptance of a lower pay range before I could even interview. I was not allowed to negotiate. I was simply told, “This is what you will accept.”
Race-Based Offer Rescission
In a landmark case, Faulk v. Dimerco, a Black MBA graduate named Kenny Faulk was offered a $90,000 job. The employer ran a background check, saw he was Black, and rescinded the offer. The company hired a white applicant with a more serious criminal record—after giving him a chance to explain.
A jury awarded Faulk $390,000 in damages plus $3 million in punitive damages. The Eleventh Circuit Court of Appeals affirmed the verdict. Evidence showed the employer had a policy of “race-matching” and “would only hire White people between the ages 26 and 40.”
Ghosting Disproportionately Affects Minorities
Research from the 2024 Candidate Experience Report by Greenhouse, which surveyed nearly 3,000 workers, found that BAME (Black, Asian, and Minority Ethnic) candidates are 67% more likely to be ghosted by employers than white candidates . The report also found that 41% of candidates faced discriminatory interview questions related to protected characteristics like age, gender, and criminal records .
The practice of ghosting is widespread. A separate survey found that 53% of job seekers have been ghosted by employers within the last year, reaching a three-year high . Recruiters report being overwhelmed by application volume—up 26% in a single quarter—partly because AI tools have made it easier for candidates to mass-apply to roles .
But when ghosting happens disproportionately to minority candidates, it is not just an “oversight.” It is a pattern.
The Narrow Window as a Control Tactic
Employment attorneys have documented the “narrow window” tactic as a form of candidate control. Recruiters who offer only limited interview times are testing how much you will sacrifice. As one attorney noted: “They want to see if you will rearrange your life for them. They are checking for desperation.”
When I was offered only two rigid choices—Friday or Monday—I was being tested. I happened to be off on Friday. I passed their test without sacrificing anything. Then the link never arrived.
I cannot prove the connection. But I see the pattern.
What Ghosting Does to Job Seekers
When a recruiter ghosts you, it is not just frustrating. It is damaging.
You are left wondering: What did I do wrong? Was it something I said? Was it my résumé? Was it me?
The silence is its own kind of rejection. It implies that you are not even worth a two-sentence email: “Thank you for your interest. We have decided to move forward with other candidates.”
For Black job seekers, ghosting carries an additional weight. We cannot help but wonder: Was it my name? My voice? My face?
When the recruiter is white and I am Black, and the interview link “accidentally” never arrives—I ask myself questions I should not have to ask.
The Resilience
I did not let this experience break me. I did not spiral. I did not give up.
I subscribed to JobRight for $70 for the quarter. On the very first day I used the platform, I submitted 15 applications—at least 10 more than I would normally complete on a day off. The average starting salary for those roles was $90,000 or more.
That is why I am optimistic. Not because I submitted 15 applications. But because I finally have a tool that allows me to apply efficiently and consistently. Before JobRight, I was limited by how many applications I could find and complete in a day. Now, I am confident that eventually, I will land additional interviews for higher-paying jobs.
I continue to practice my interviewing skills. I study. I prepare. I show up.
I still have my current job. It is stressful, but it is income.
I refuse to let one recruiter’s silence define my worth.
What I Want You to Know
If you are a Black job seeker who has experienced bait-and-switch tactics, lower pay expectations, narrow scheduling windows, or being ghosted after an interview was scheduled—you are not alone. These patterns are documented. They are real. And they are not your fault.
If you are a hiring manager or recruiter, I want you to ask yourself: Are you treating Black candidates differently? Are you offering them less before they even have a chance to negotiate? Are you offering only narrow interview windows and then “forgetting” to send the link?
Silence is not neutral. Ghosting is not professional. And bias—conscious or unconscious—has real consequences for real people.
Final Thoughts
I applied for a job at Genworth. I completed the HireVue interview. I was asked to accept lower pay. I was offered two narrow interview windows. I chose Friday because I was already off. Then the interview link never arrived.
The recruiter never followed up. She never explained. She never apologized.
I do not know for certain why she treated me this way. I cannot read her mind.
But I know what the research says.
I know what my gut tells me.
And I know what I experienced.
A Black job seeker was asked to confirm she would accept less. She was given two rigid choices for an interview. She made herself available. Then she was forgotten.
That is not just bad hiring. That is a pattern.
And it needs to change.
Key Takeaways
| Issue | What You Need to Know |
|---|---|
| Bait-and-switch pay | The job posting promised up to $66,400. The email revealed $47,500. |
| Confirmation required | I had to confirm the lower range met my expectations before a live interview. |
| Narrow scheduling window | Only two rigid options: Friday or Monday. A control tactic. |
| Missing link | The Microsoft Teams link never arrived. |
| Ghosting | The recruiter never followed up. No explanation. No apology. |
| Research | Studies show Black candidates face bias in salary negotiations, ghosting disparities, and “narrow window” testing. |
| Resilience | I keep applying. I keep practicing. I keep moving forward. |
This article is based on my personal experience applying for a Senior Customer Service Representative role at Genworth Financial. I cannot prove that race was a factor in how I was treated. But I know what I experienced, and the research supports the patterns I observed.
